Certification: your questions answered:

→ Will I have access to the material beyond the 6 months? 

Yes, you get lifetime access to all the learning materials, texts, recordings - the lot! SO much to sink your teeth into and keep you satiated for months, if not years. You will return to the material for years to come, the wisdom will grow with you. It is the exact framework & structure you will guide your future clients through. You will also be a member of our Alumni group and whatsapp communication - we love sharing wisdoms and celebrating wins in there! These beautiful humans are your future colleagues :)

→ I am really busy. What happens if I can't be live for the calls?

Totally fine! I understand life is busy, so don't put pressure on yourself if you can't be there live. This is why I made the modules self-paced so you can make the course work FOR you. Most students find it all very doable and honestly enjoyable! Everything is recorded and you can contact me afterwards with any questions and connect with the other ladies through the community portal. 

→ How do I know if this space is for me?

Two words: your intuition. It is guiding you - either you feel a curiosity, an excitement, a pull or it just sticks around in your awareness that doesn't seem to shake. That is your body guiding you here to learn and evolve. It won't always feel comfortable, there will be times you doubt it and your mind can often try and talk you out of it (because you WILL transform and that's scary to your mind). Tune into your intuitive authority and if it wants to join, you will NOT regret it. Let's just say - every student tells me it's life changing (their words, not mine).

→ When are the live Q&A calls? 

Wednesdays are our live call days - the day of Mercury (communication). It will alternate between 9.30am and 4.30pm AEST to cater for all time zones. These run every fortnight, you will have the modules to watch in your own time.

→ I don't have a business yet, can I still join?

Of course!! Many just join to learn Human Design and grow spiritually themselves. Most don't know “why” they are joining but feel a strong urge. That's who I have created the course mainly for! Those with an inner rumbling that there is something more for them, they know they are here to guide & make a difference, but don't feel equipped to guide someone through a transformation with integrity. 

ENTER Human Design - your framework to deeply impact people that will leave them thinking you are inside their psyche! You will also be mentored and supported in creating your business. I have added bonus sessions exactly for this - to support you in your entrepreneurial journey.  I will also be sharing somatic modalities to support your nervous system as you take these strides outside of your comfort zone. That's what makes this course different!

→ Is it okay if I am a beginner?

YES! Although you will be an expert in HD after the course, we start right from the beginning. You don't need clarity of your direction or knowing exactly where it's all going - that is coming! You will gain so much self awareness and clarity throughout the course, it is just as much a self development journey as it is a certification training. 

→ What if I have lots going on in my life right now and worried I won't stay on track?

I get it! Life can feel very full! This course caters for all learning styles and you always have options. We have an engaged community and an accountability partner to keep you on track. And if I am honest, our lessons are bloody fun and engaging - you will enjoy them and look forward to attending weekly!

Past students found the work and times super manageable. I have also extended the time period purposely so that it feels even more spacious and supportive. You really only need 2 hours a week available. Remember, you get lifetime access so you can return back to our space whenever you need.

And honestly, even if you only attend 50% of the classes, you'll get your investment worth. Nothing to lose, lots to gain.

But you know what you can and can't take on right now. Connect with yourself intuitively and feel into what you want to prioritise in your life at the moment. Creating space is always important - but you need to make that decision if you want to change. Something always has to give but it's important to feel into whether it's your mind's fear or genuinely you have no space. If the latter, trust that.

→ I am already a coach but want to infuse HD into my offerings - is this the right space for me?

AMAZING! Get ready for your whole business to transform and create greater results for your clients. You will have an in-depth and comprehensive understanding of each person, and a framework to intuitively guide people through. The coaching industry is changing and people are craving highly individualised, tangible advice and programs. This is your competitive advantage and will make you a market-leader in your spaces.

If there's a question you have that still hasn't been answered, hit reply to this email and I will love to connect with you.

If you are ready to join us:

Pay in full and receive a bonus 1:1 session with me valued at $450.

Click here to register via our flexible payment plan.​

Locating Yourself: Why Your Evolution Matters More Than the Outcome

So often, we want to be anywhere but where we are. We feel the pull toward change but don’t know where to begin. That’s because transformation doesn’t start with the destination—it starts with honestly locating ourselves in the present moment.

It’s like Google Maps. You can enter your desired location, but without your current coordinates, no route will appear.

The same is true for personal growth. You can have the vision, the goals, the desire to evolve—but if you aren’t truthful about where you are now, the path forward remains unclear.

How often do we say, “I don’t know” before even giving ourselves the space to check in? Instead of turning inward, we seek external validation, repeat old narratives, or ask others for answers. We’ve forgotten that we are deeply intuitive, connected, and intelligent beings.

What If You Already Know?

The truth is, you can’t think your way into clarity—you have to feel it.

But feeling isn’t always comfortable. It means sitting with everything—the joy, the grief, the uncertainty—without rushing to fix or bypass it. It’s easy to say, “just feel your feelings and you’ll find your truth”, but we live in a culture where emotions are often treated as inconvenient. We’re taught to suppress, override, and perform instead of being honest about what’s happening inside.

No wonder we feel emotionally constipated—holding everything in—or, on the flip side, like we’re purging emotions so rapidly we can’t keep up.

Thankfully, something is shifting. More people are recognizing the power of feeling, of slowing down, of honoring what’s real. The more we embrace this, the less we need “techniques” to process our emotions and the more we simply allow them to be a natural part of life. Maybe what we need isn’t more tools, but more honesty. More permission to explore the shadowy edges within. More safe spaces. More connection. More time.

Efficiency vs. Connection

On a recent trip to India, we spoke about the contrast between Western efficiency and the deeply communal nature of Indian culture. In the modern world, we’ve been conditioned to believe that efficiency is the highest form of success. But what has it cost us?

Efficiency often means less connection. Less presence. More autopilot. More loneliness.

In a culture rooted in reincarnation, the focus isn’t on getting ahead as fast as possible—it’s on the quality of the experience, the evolution of the soul. The true purpose isn’t just checking off achievements, but deepening self-awareness, contributing to collective healing, and embodying wisdom through experience.

Maybe success isn’t about doing more, faster. Maybe it’s about feeling more, deeper.

The Power of Locating Yourself in the Present Moment

A simple yet profound way to find clarity is to pause, feel into your body, and allow an “I am” statement to arise.

• “I’m Hillary, and I feel stuck.”

• “I’m Hillary, and I don’t know what this feeling is.”

• “I’m Hillary, and I just need rest.”

Putting words to what’s happening inside integrates thinking, feeling, and being. Even if all you can say is, “I feel lost”, that acknowledgment itself is a moment of empowerment—because now, you’ve found yourself in your lostness.

From there, the next step reveals itself. Not the whole path, but just enough light to move forward.

Your Evolution Matters More Than the Outcome

We often obsess over whether something will work out—whether we’ll get the job, keep the relationship, reach the goal. But what if the point was never about making sure it happens?

What if the real purpose was how you change through it?

• The job might not be about the position itself, but about finding your own voice.

• The relationship might not be about making it last, but about learning self-trust.

• The business might not be about the money, but about stepping into your highest self.

The universe is far more invested in your growth than in your ego’s idea of how things should unfold. If something isn’t happening the way you expected, it’s not failure—it’s divine redirection. Because the real success is not in the outcome. It’s in who you become along the way.

Coming Home to Yourself

So today, let’s start small. When someone asks, “How are you?”—pause. Feel. Answer truthfully, even if it’s inconvenient.

Because when we give ourselves the space to be real, we reconnect. We locate ourselves in the present moment. And from there, the path forward becomes clear.

Letting Go of Attachments

Are You Proving Yourself or Being Yourself?

Have you ever felt like the moment you grip onto something too tightly, whether it’s a relationship, a business goal, or a certain image of success, it slips through your fingers?

That’s not a coincidence. That’s the Universe doing you a favour.

Either, that exact thing in that exact way, wasn’t what is meant in this exact moment for your true soul Self.

Also because anything built on attachment, on the need to prove, on external validation was never truly yours to begin with. 

Let me explain…

When we make any person, any business, any goal or anything our 'God' – it isn’t healthy. It isn’t truth. If we put something or someone on that high of a pedestal, we lose our power. Our view is distorted, our priorities are skewed and we lose a sense of ourselves and footing.

Have you ever noticed that when you care less, it all just seems to fall into place quicker or when you least expect it. This is because your whole sense of self and validation has not been attached to that thing. The Universe can’t deliver if it is because your sense of self is grounded regardless.

This is why people always say you need to “let it go” or “surrender to the outcome” with manifesting. If you hold the outcome too tight, you are in a state of constriction and distrust, not light and allowance.

The irony is that the less we seek validation, the more we become magnetic because we are embodying true confidence and alignment.

Are You Making Decisions to Prove Yourself?

Take a moment to reflect:

• Are you choosing paths that feel good to YOU, or ones that will make you look good to others?

• Are you saying yes because you truly want to, or because you don’t want to disappoint someone?

• Are you chasing success, love, recognition because it’s aligned, or because deep down, you don’t feel enough without it?

The truth is, when we operate from a place of needing validation, we’re outsourcing our power. We build businesses, relationships, and identities that aren’t even ours. And at some point, the universe will strip those things away, not as punishment, but as liberation.

Why the Universe Will Strip Attachments From You

Attachment creates resistance. The tighter we hold onto something, the less space we give for divine flow. When we define ourselves by external things (titles, money, relationships) the universe will often remove them to show us:

"You were never meant to define yourself by this. You are already enough."

That you never needed to rely on those things to define or give you worth.

ESPECIALLY if they aren't aligned for you.

Losing what we’re attached to isn’t a loss. It’s a gift. Because what’s truly meant for us can only come when we’re unattached to how it has to look.

Human Design & the Need for External Validation

Your chart holds clues to where you might be seeking validation outside of yourself, look to these specific centers:

• Undefined G-Center: Searching for identity, love, or belonging externally in something outside of yourself, and holding onto roles in order to fit in or feel important. Think: wearing masks or choosing roles based on ego rather than your genuine desire and authenticity.

• Undefined Ego (Heart) Center: Feeling like you have to prove your worth, overworking, over-promising, or tying your value to achievement. This is what most of the world operates on – no wonder we have such a big self worth problem!

• Undefined Throat: Trying to be seen or heard, speaking to get attention rather than when it’s aligned. OR forcing yourself to create and manifest from an unaligned space (i.e. law always felt hard to speak about, whereas I could talk about HD all day long).

• Undefined Ajna: Feeling pressure to have certainty, prove your intelligence, or have all the answers.

When you make decisions from these open centers, you’re making them from lack. It has a LOUD conditioned voice that you shouldn’t operate on as fact, but invitation to connect to your deeper Truths within. Every time that voice comes up, you are being given an opportunity to heal it. Remember anything built from lack will eventually crumble.

How to Make Decisions From a Place of Alignment

1. Check in with your body, not your mind. Your mind will always find reasons to justify what looks “good.” Your body (through your Authority) will always tell the truth. Does something feel hard and wrong? Trust that wisdom.

2. Ask yourself: Would I still want this if no one saw or praised me for it? If the answer is no, it’s not alignment, it’s validation-seeking.

3. Does your experience depend on how well it’s received or not received by others (i.e. it was only a good instagram post if you got lots of likes vs am I personally happy with what I shared?) If so, you will be blocking your ability to receive community and authentic connection.

4. Detach from praise or criticism because both are just reflections of others’ perspectives, not your truth. This TRANSFORMED my sense of expression and community growth exponentially.

5. Release what isn’t truly yours. If something feels heavy, forced, or like it’s depleting you, it’s a sign you’re holding onto an attachment. Letting go creates space for what actually supports you.

6. Feel the weight of the “thing” in your body - if it feels “needed” or life/death, you need to work on releasing its attachment and any fear if it did go away.

7. Trust that what’s removed is making space for something greater. If something is leaving your life, trust that it wasn’t aligned anymore. The void is uncomfortable, but what fills it will be far more expansive.

This week, I invite you to notice where you’re making decisions from a place of needing approval or seeking validation. What would change if you chose only what was true to YOU?

Remember, fulfillment comes from alignment with your body and the Universe, not from human approval or outward achievements. The only person you should be making “proud” is your highest self and divine energy. The more you seek validation from others, the more you disconnect from our true source of divine fulfillment.

When we stop looking outward for validation, we allow the Light to fill us.

The moment you stop seeking validation from others, you create space for divine guidance. And when you act from that place, you don’t just attract success, you align with your soul’s highest path.

Because when you let go of what was never yours, you make space for what always was.

The things you’ll never regret (and why now is the time to choose them)

If there’s one thing I’ve seen over and over again — through Human Design, through science, through the thousands of people my work has connected with — it's this:

Your body always knows the truth before your mind can explain it.

Long before your brain starts spiraling through the what-ifs and the doubts.

Long before you start calculating the risks or scanning for approval.

There’s something deeper that already knows.

For a Manifestor, it’s that initial surge of creative power that says, Go first.
For a Generator, it’s the gut response whispering, Yes, this!
For a Manifesting Generator, it’s the spark that says, What if I could do it all?
For a Projector, it’s the recognition that says, They’re ready to hear.
For a Reflector, it’s the subtle, sacred shift that says, This feels like home.

And yet, the very second you get close to that knowing, the mind tends to step in.

From a neuroscience perspective, this is completely normal.
Your brain is wired to seek safety and predictability.
It’s constantly trying to protect you from uncertainty.

Which is why, as soon as you get close to expansion, your mind floods you with imagined problems to solve:

"What if this doesn’t work?"
"What if I fail?"
"What if people don’t get it?"
"What if I’m not qualified?"

But here’s the truth:
The fear is just a projection — a leftover survival mechanism trying to keep you in the familiar.

In many spiritual wisdoms, it teaches that we have an opposing negative force that is trying to stop more light and expansion in. But it is your invitation to transcend, not believe it's lies! It is your opportunity to get even more grounded and rooted in your truth.

Because if you don't, if you keep letting the mind lead...
Nothing changes.

But when you choose to let your body, your design, and your inner authority guide you?
Everything changes.

Because here’s what I can promise you:

–- You will never regret trusting the signals your body has been giving you all along.
–- You will never regret following the path that lights you up, even if it takes you somewhere you couldn’t have predicted.
–- You will never regret creating the thing that felt like it came through you, even if it scared you.
–- You will never regret choosing rest, space, and alignment over burnout, proving, and exhaustion.
–- You will never regret becoming the person who finally stopped apologising for how they’re built, and started living like it.

And if there’s any part of you right now that feels the pull to go deeper...
–- To stop intellectualising your Human Design and actually embody it.
–- To share your insights, your wisdom, your magic in ways that support others.
–- To build something of your own — whether it’s a business, a body of work, or simply a new way of living that feels like home...

That’s exactly what Advanced Human Design Reader Certification is here to hold.

Because Human Design isn’t just a modality.
It’s not just a chart to learn or a language to memorise.

It’s a living, breathing experiment that re-patterns your subconscious, changes your life path, and returns you to the person you were before the world told you who you should be.

The longer you wait, the louder the fear gets.

But the second you choose yourself, choose your energy, choose your design...
That’s when it all starts to move.

And the only thing you’ll wonder is why you waited so long.

So here’s your reminder:

The life, the work, the version of you that’s been whispering this is what we came here to do...
 

It’s waiting on the other side of one decision.

And you’ll never regret making it.

Because the next chapter of your life?
It gets to be designed by you.

Stop obsessively trying to solve problems that don’t exist

Have you noticed how the moment you start thinking about expanding — changing something, trying something new, stepping into a bigger version of yourself — your mind suddenly gets very busy?

It starts creating 101 problems you have to solve before you can move forward:
// What if it doesn’t work?
// What if I’m not ready?
// What if I mess it up?
// What if they don’t like it?
// What if I fail?

These are protective patterns.

When you GET SO CLOSE to a new potential reality, your inner critic and negative opposing energy gets stronger!

This is not something you should believe or shy away from. It is a GOOD sign – you are moving outside of your comfort zone and expanding into your biggest evolution. 

Your nervous system is just doing what it’s wired to do: keeping you safe from the unknown.

And the unknown is exactly where your next level lives.

But here’s the thing: most of the “problems” your mind creates?

They don’t even exist.

The future is just a concept. It isn’t real.

There is no way to predict exactly what will happen next, no matter how much your mind tries to plan for every possible outcome.

All that’s real is this moment.

Right here.

Right now.

So how much of your energy is being spent solving problems that aren’t even happening?

How much are you delaying your next step because of scenarios your mind has made up?

And most importantly:
Where are you trusting your fear more than your instinct?

Because here’s what I know for sure—
Your instinct is never leading you toward chaos.

It's leading you to where your soul knows you are meant to be.

Your design already knows how to guide you forward.

And if any actual challenge arises?

You’ll handle it. You always do.

The work isn’t to avoid discomfort. But MOVE through it. It's your initiation to your next level of abundance, purpose and fulfilment. This CHANGED my life when I finally got it!

The work is to stop abandoning your desires because of imaginary problems that were never yours to carry.

And if you’ve been feeling the pull to step into a bigger version of yourself —
To stop holding back your gifts.
To stop second-guessing your wisdom.
To finally own the work you're here to do and share it in a way that feels natural, powerful, and true to you...

This is the exact kind of work we do inside Advanced Human Design Reader Certification.

Because the mind will try to keep you small.

The future will always feel uncertain.
And the only real moment to choose yourself and your purpose is this one.

And you’ll never regret doing that.

Because when you stop solving problems that don’t exist...
You finally get to build the life that does.

AHHH I CAN'T WAIT TO SHARE WHAT I HAVE IN STORE FOR YOU!! 

The REAL cost of Procrastination

We tend to think of procrastination as something small.

A delay.

A harmless pause.

A habit of putting off the email, the project, the idea.

But what about when you’re procrastinating your actual life?

Not just the tasks on your list — but the deeper calls.

The changes you’ve been craving.

The parts of you that whisper, there’s more than this.

"I’ll leave when the timing is better."

"I’ll start once I’m more prepared."

"I’ll follow what lights me up… later."

And you keep waiting for later like it’s a destination you’ll eventually arrive at.

But your subconscious and nervous system doesn’t know the difference between a real threat and the imagined fear of failure or rejection or change.

It holds you in patterns of survival:

Stay where it’s familiar.

Repeat what feels safe.

Protect what you’ve built — even if what you’ve built is slowly suffocating you.

Meanwhile, your soul knows something else entirely.

It’s been quietly nudging you.

Through the boredom that creeps in.

Through the restlessness you can’t quite explain.

Through the endless search for “the thing” you’re here to do.

And that tension you feel?

It’s just the gap between your current reality and the life you were actually designed for.

But the longer you ignore it, the further away it starts to feel.

Because procrastinating your life doesn't happen in big, obvious ways.

It’s subtle.

It’s sneaky.

It’s death by a thousand “maybe one days.”

And the cost of waiting?

It’s not just the job you don’t love.

Or the dream you never start.

It’s you.

It’s who you came here to be.

The expression of your unique energy.

The work that would feel like a homecoming.

And here's what I know:

The subconscious and nervous system thrives on repetition, which means the longer you delay, the easier it becomes to keep delaying.

But it also means that change — real, lasting, embodied change — becomes inevitable the moment you create safety around doing things differently.

And that starts by going first.

By deciding you’re done putting off the life you actually want.

By saying yes to the version of you who already knows how good it gets to feel.

This is the work I care about most.

Not just understanding Human Design—but embodying it.

Rewiring the patterns that keep you small.

Moving through the fear that tells you to stay quiet.

Learning to trust your own energy so deeply that following what lights you up becomes second nature.

This is what happens inside Advanced Human Design Certification.

We go beyond the charts.

Beyond the concepts.

Into the actual integration of your design.

So you can stop procrastinating the work you're here to do

And finally build the business, the message, and the life that feels like you.

The next round is open for enrollment.

And if you’ve felt the pull, even quietly, even just once…

You’re not imagining it.

This gets to be the moment you stop waiting.

Because your life isn’t on hold.

Your purpose isn’t pending.

The work you’re here to do doesn’t live in the future.

It lives here.

Now.

When you're ready, I’d love to share more with you.

If you feel an intuitive call and don’t know why, it’s because there is something very important here for you..

Will You Go First?

The Advanced Human Design Certification is designed to take you beyond theory. You’ll learn:

• The science, art and knowledge of Human Design

• How to intuitively apply it to create real transformation with integrative and practical wisdoms

• How to step into your unique way of sharing this work with the world and create your aligned business

If you feel called to this work, now is the time to go first and stop putting your life on hold.

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YOUR MOTIVATION (in Human Design) MATTERS

One of the most underrated, overlooked, and completely life-changing pieces of Human Design is something that often gets skipped over: Motivation.

If you've looked at the arrows in your chart (the Variables), Motivation is what sits beneath the bottom right arrow — your “why,” your driving force, the quality of perspective that keeps your system in alignment.

It’s what sustains you.

It’s what pulls you forward when things get hard.

It’s what keeps your energy clear and your trajectory aligned.

When you're living from correct Motivation, you become magnetic, focused, and deeply grounded in your truth.

When you're living from incorrect Motivation, things start to feel distorted:

• Proving.

• Forcing.

• Comparing.

• Exhausting yourself trying to be strategic about things that were never yours to control.

Here’s the thing: Motivation isn’t about doing more.

It’s about purifying the frequency you’re operating from.

It’s the invisible thread that connects your sense of purpose to the way you serve, create, and lead.

Here is a snapshot of the Motivations (if you don't know yours, generate your chart here and it will say at the bottom). 

1. Fear (Higher expression: Awareness | Shadow: Paranoia)

Motivated to create a safe, secure, sturdy foundation in everything you do. First you investigate, then you take action. Build confidence by gathering the knowledge and insights you need to feel secure in your decisions so you can MOVE FORWARD. You become a wealth of knowledge & trustworthy source.

When aligned, Fear Motivation brings sharp intuition, strategic awareness, and an ability to prevent problems before they arise.
When distorted, it spirals into anxiety, overthinking suspicion, and distrust—seeing threats everywhere so doesn’t move forward.

2. Hope (Higher expression: Trust | Shadow: Naivety)

Motivated to hold the light, believe in possibility and reach the full potential on offer in this lifetime. You see that the world is a beautiful place with endless opportunities. You flow best when you surrender and trust the process. Follow what calls to your heart, and let the Universe support your journey.

When aligned, Hope Motivation allows you to move through life with optimism, faith, and inner peace. "There is always a way."
When distorted, it can become passive, avoidant, waiting for someone else to fix or overly idealistic—refusing to take grounded action.

3. Desire (Higher expression: Leadership | Shadow: Insecurity)

Motivated to lead us into a new way of being. Your role is to forge new paths and inspire others to follow suit. You are motivated by impact. You thrive when pursuing what excites and challenges you. 

When aligned, Desire Motivation trust their skills, follow their passions and let their natural authority shine. Create the change you desire to see in the world.
When distorted, they shy away from their power and don’t feel like they have anything to offer – so we miss out on their gifts and vision.

4. Need (Higher expression: Community Impact | Shadow: Scarcity)

Motivated to serve, share and support your community. You deeply understand what people need and have the ability to create a meaningful impact through your presence, love and compassion. Focus on the bigger picture — you are here for profound, authentic connection and impact. 

When aligned, Need Motivation becomes a resource for both yourself and others.
When distorted, becomes hyper-focused on the details, scarcity, what if’s and over-giving.

5. Guilt (Higher expression: Correction | Shadow: Over-responsibility)

Motivated to Improve, fix, uplift and make things better — for yourself, for others and the collective. Your drive comes from a desire to enhance, to grow, and to contribute to a better world.  You know what works and what doesn't — let your inner compass lead and take aligned action.
When aligned, Guilt Motivation is here to improve systems and serve others with heart.
When distorted, it takes on too much, feels responsible for everyone’s wellbeing, and exhausts itself trying to "make it right."

6. Innocence (Higher expression: Presence | Shadow: Apathy)

Motivated to move through life without an agenda and create your dream life. You are here to embody your desires, not try to control or force outcomes. You see the world through your personal lens and operate best when you aren’t swayed by other’s expectations or norms. This is YOUR life, and you have your own path of endless possibilities. 
When aligned, Innocence Motivation trusts the flow of life and from that space of individuality and integrity, they are a true inspiration and example.
When distorted, it disconnects, checks out, or avoids responsibility entirely.

This is just a little snapshot of the depth most people miss with Human Design.

The advanced layers that take you from "this is interesting" to "this changes everything."

And this is exactly why I created the Advanced Human Design Certification.

It’s not just about reading charts (of course we do that!). It’s about understanding the UNIVERSAL ENERGETIC SYSTEM behind what truly creates alignment in someone’s life — and learning how to guide people through it. I see it as a cheat sheet and competitive advantage to the codes of the Universe and the Matrix.

If you want to master this depth and understand the art and science of Human Design. The Advanced Certification is where we go all the way in.

Enrolment is open.

And if your Intuition and Motivation is calling, maybe that's no coincidence. Because nothing is random in this world – it's your sign to follow.

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Certainty and Belief Shifting in Human Design

One of the most powerful things Human Design offers isn’t just permission to be yourself — it’s the gift of certainty.
 

Certainty in who you are.
 

Certainty in how you’re built to move through the world.
 

Certainty in your power, your potential, and the bigger unfolding of your life.

Because here’s the truth: Your beliefs create your reality.

When you deeply believe in your own value, your brilliance, your innate timing, and your unique design...
the world has no choice but to mirror that certainty back to you.

We think we’re waiting on the external to change so we can feel safe to believe in ourselves.

But really, it’s the belief that shifts first — and the reality follows.

The reason we feel stuck isn’t because we’re doing something “wrong” — it’s because we’re operating from beliefs that were never ours to begin with.

Beliefs like:
— "I have to keep pushing or I’ll fall behind."
— "I should finish what I start, even if I hate it."
— "I am not innately good enough and have to prove my worth to be chosen."
— "Success comes through sacrifice."

When you believe in your creative power, ideas and opportunities land in your lap.

When you believe your desires are meant for you, the path opens up in ways your mind never could have controlled.

When you believe you can trust your body and intuition (over doubt & conditioning), you make decisions that feel clear and easeful.

When you believe you’re allowed to follow joy, you attract more of what lights you up.

When you believe your timing is perfect, you release the pressure to rush.

When you believe rest is productive, you stop burning out and start thriving.

It shifts the belief from “I need to be more like them” to “I’m exactly who I’m meant to be.”

This is the frequency shift.

This is embodiment.

This is how new realities are born.

This is how we step into new, higher timelines.

This is how we collapse old versions of ourselves.

So if you’re feeling stuck, unclear, or caught in the same patterns — ask yourself:
What belief am I still carrying that isn’t actually mine?
And who am I without that belief?

This is where everything begins to change.

And the more certain you become in who you are and who you’re becoming, the more the universe responds in kind.

Doubt & Confusion: Gate 63 and Gate 64 Transit

☀️ The Sun in Gate 63 – The Gate of Doubt
🌎  The Earth in Gate 64 – The Gate of Confusion

The sun is currently in Gate 63 of “Doubt” and earth in Gate 64 of “Confusion” which brings a sense of skepticism and potential overthinking & distrust in yourself and the world around you. 

Right now, many people are feeling uncentered, pressured to gain clarity, and frustrated when things aren’t happening as quickly as they had hoped. There’s a lot of second-guessing, overthinking, and urgency to “figure it all out.” A common theme of asking “what is this even all for?” “do I have what it takes?” “is this even worth it?”. If this resonates, you’re not alone. But please, don't burn it all down or think something is actually wrong!

This is the time to really anchor into your practices that help you feel connected to yourself and stay in your trust. Self trust and confidence is not about being perfect or doing all the right things. It is about stepping outside your comfort zone, and making the newness FAMILIAR & SAFE. Let yourself be new, be a beginner, start something for the first time. 

Let's ground these energies into their highest expression:

Gate 63 – The Gift of Discernment & Inspired Thinking

This gate brings a powerful ability to question, analyse, and refine ideas. While it can show up as self-doubt or skepticism, its higher potential is discernment, deep thinking, and innovative breakthroughs. It allows us to see what’s truly aligned versus what isn’t, making it an incredible energy for clarity — when used correctly.

✔️ Aligned Doubt: Questioning helps us refine our path, challenge old beliefs, and sharpen our intuition.
✖️ Unaligned Doubt: Overthinking, second-guessing, and paralysing fear of making the "wrong" decision.

My view on Doubt & Trust

Doubt is a very-human energy that separates us from our Light — our truth, inner wisdom, trust, and connection to divine intelligence. When doubt arises, it’s not meant to be feared or eliminated but transcended.

It’s an opportunity to choose your intuition over fear, trust over anxiety, and to lean into our inner knowing instead of external noise. When we resist doubt or try to “solve” it with logic, we get stuck. But when we observe it without attachment, we move through it and reconnect to clarity. Your job right now? 

Principles to Anchor Into Right Now:

// Doubt is an illusion. Witness the doubt but don’t let it run the show or shut you down. It feels real, but it’s just a mental construct trying to keep you in a loop of fear. Remember to make your mission bigger than your doubt. 
// The more you trust, the more clarity you receive. The greatest breakthroughs happen when we stop seeking certainty outside of ourselves and instead trust the certainty within. Certainty opens the doors that doubt tries to close.
// You don’t need to know the whole path to take the next step. The Universe responds when we move forward – how would the empowered, self-believing version of you move through the world?.

What to Watch Out For:

✖️ Letting Doubt Spiral into Inaction – Discernment is valuable, but doubting yourself to the point of doing nothing will keep you stuck.

✖️ Getting Stuck in “What Ifs” – The mind loves to replay the past or obsess over possible futures, but neither is where your power is. 

What to Lean Into Instead:

✔️ Ask Yourself: “Am I overthinking this? Or sensing it?” Your mind is loud, frantic, and repetitive. Your intuition is clear, steady, and quiet. Big difference. True knowing doesn’t come from force. It is from your intuitive excitement and curiosity. 

✔️ Come Back to Your Strategy & Authority. Human Design teaches us that decisions aren’t meant to come from mental pressure. Your Authority — your body’s intelligence — is your most trusted guide.

✔️ Trust the Process. Confusion isn’t a sign you’re lost—it’s a signal that a breakthrough is on its way. You are creating safety and familiarity in the new potentiality. The answers are forming, even if you can’t see them yet.

You've got this! Trust yourself, have certainty in your intuitive responses, let this moment of questioning pass and stay rooted in your knowing & vision. Don't burn it all down. Your inner intuition is your guide, not your overthinking monkey mind.

Fear of being seen and sharing online

This is my PSA that you do not have to bare it all online to be successful in this industry.

I hear so often, “I really want to get into this work but I am just not the person who wants to speak face to camera or share all my vulnerable life moments”.

And you know what my answer is? (Unlike other coaches that may say you have to!)

“Please don't then!!”

Where did we go so far that we feel like its necessary to bare your heart and soul to absolute strangers on the internet? That in order to “help” people, you have to be so vulnerable and share your most deepest, hardest, challenging and raw moments of your life (cue crying video). Where did this become a prerequisite to being a trustworthy, “authentic person” and a “limiting belief” if you don't do it. 

Don't get me wrong, I am all about transparency, authenticity and vulnerability. But you don't owe anyone your full vulnerability and rawest moments.

It makes me sad to think that many incredible women aren't stepping into their purpose for fear that they need to do that. 

There is a difference between fear of being seen and wanting to keep your heart protected.  There is a difference between sharing something because “it makes you more relatable” vs genuinely wanting to share what you have moved through (because that will never feel forced). If there comes a moment that you WANT to share that - amazing! Go for it!!

But at the end of the day, protect your heart. You don't have to say all the details but share the learnings, realisations, perspectives, process, your wisdom - that you have cultivated from your life experience. People feel the WEIGHT in your words rather than needing to tell them all that you went through to receive that now knowing. This should be more of a priority.

I rarelyyy ever post talking to camera - not because I am afraid of it but because it hasn't really felt natural, so I don't force it. I have always felt like my podcast was more my space. If I do feel called to grab my camera and speak, then I will. But I don't see it as a prerequisite for success & community creation. 

Don't let this be a reason to stop you from stepping into this coaching space. You set the expectation of what you are available for! 

You can share, be seen, serve in a way that feels true for you!

You never ever ever have to self sacrifice for the sake of success. 

Don't let it be the reason you don't start the business or share your wisdom.

So now that's out of the way - do you have a message, deep down desire & mission to help people -  there is an element of putting yourself out there and actually sharing that. So if you are afraid of being seen, here are some of my tips:

// Look at where you are judging others or have witnessed judgement of others - when we judge others, it is a reflection of where we judge ourselves and have a shadow of not allowing ourselves to fully express. We never ever want to be on the other end of the judgement that we or others have given. My past self would have 1000% judged me now, because she didn't let herself be authentic or take up space. Until I went inward, healed those shadow aspects, celebrated other people doing the thing I previously judged - did I no longer fear it. I realised that judgement is more about that person, than about me (because I had been the judger before). Talk about FREEING being someone with absolutely no judgement towards others.

// Connect with the inner child of you that is afraid of being seen, misunderstood, rejected and abandoned. I love to use the practice of IFS (that I will be teaching you inside the Certification) to access, heal, and send love to that part of yourself. This is POWERFUL because it gets to the core, root subconscious belief rather than bandaid approach. Your inner child needs to feel safe & protected - how are you helping them feel that?

// Regulate your nervous system before, after and during “being seen”. If you are putting yourself out there, your nervous system and body can go into fight or flight. It can feel like it's safety and survival is threatened because you are going against “the pack” (we need community to survive). So please breathe through it, EFT tapping, saying the sound “voooom” as you tap and regulate your body. Tell yourself “I am safe, I am safe”. Then get support either from nature or a loved on - this gives the feeling of unconditional love & acceptance. Do not, I repeat, do not check your phone, the likes, the reception - it will make it only worse. Celebrate yourself for doing the scary thing, regardless of the reception!

Take it slow, this is big work. Especially if you have a 5 profile line. When you allow yourself to naturally and authentically be seen for your sharings & knowings - you will feel truly FREE and no longer held back. But again, you do not need to feel like you have to be an open book that bares it all! You just do you! 

If you want to dive in deeper to moving through the fear of being seen, I recorded a podcast earlier this year below!

Sending so much love!! Honestly so proud of you, I know this work is MASSIVE. Fear of being seen used to be debilitating for me (to the extent that I broke up with my partner, moved overseas and blocked everyone from my home city on instagram so that they couldn't see this new identity and life I was creating). Please don't go to my extremes haha! 

If I can do it, so can you!

Banishing Feast And Famine Cycles in Business

Why setting yourself Up to receive consistently is so important in business 

One of the biggest challenges many business owners face is the cycle of feast and famine. One month, you're attracting so much work & clients, and the next, you're scrambling to find your next opportunity. But it doesn’t have to be this way. With the right strategies, aligned with your Human Design — you can create consistency in your business so you can enjoy steady returns and a predictable client flow.

Here’s my number one tip for each energy type (because yes, my advice will always depend on your Human Design. I don't believe in one-size-fits-all cookie-cutter approaches):

PROJECTORS:

1. Establish Yourself in the Market as an Expert in Your Field: When you first begin your business, you are working to create reputation in your industry as a guide and leader in your expertise (because that is your gift and what you are here for). From there, you build trust in your expertise, an engaged community and are positioned as a go-to authority. The invites flow and you will attract consistent and ideal clients. To do this, you need to be so clear and dialed in to what you offer, the knowledge & expertise you have and how you can help people transform. Once that reputation has been created, it does all the work for you – you don't have to show up constantly on instagram, you don't have to undercharge or overgive to clients – you are in demand and will feel deeply seen, recognised and successful. 

How to do it: Start sharing your unique insights in your own words in blogs, podcasts, videos, social media (we prefer long form content) where you showcase your knowledge. Give client testimonials and case studies to highlight your credibility of delivering high-quality results and value. You have to allow yourself to be seen and take up space, don't let imposter syndrome stop you from sharing your gifts and perspectives. I teach you how to create your reputation and receive recognition in your chosen field during Create Space.

GENERATORS:

1. Simplify your offerings, nail the energy behind your messaging and create recurring revenue streams:  Generators thrive when they focus on mastering one or a few areas, rather than scattering energy across too many directions. Your energy is what sells and draws your aligned clientele so you need to LOVE your offering and feel excited to show up for it. When people feel that energy behind your work, they can't help but be attracted to what you are offering. Strategize how you can gain more from your output – so offer packages and products that allow you to work with clients for a longer period of time. Not only does this mean more revenue for you, but you can help them achieve even better results. Offering one-off 1:1 is great to gain experience, but it is making receiving consistently a lot more harder than they need to be. 

How to do it: Simplify your business offerings. More is not better. Start with one clear, impactful offering that serves a very specific problem your niche is experiencing. Once that’s established, you can continue to develop and expand your offering. Remember it needs to be structured to create consistent revenue so you work smarter, not harder. Your energy does the talking! 

MANIFESTING GENERATORS:

1. Be Visible and Share Your Energy: MGs are SO magnetic when they are authentically excited about what they do – it is infectious and contagious when we see you in your flow and passion. So show us the fun wild ride of your life and business. People are drawn to your vibrant energy. unique mix of skills and passions - be more YOU. Clients are less interested in a polished, “perfect” presentation and more drawn to your genuine enthusiasm and how you show up in the world. Stop trying to stay small, “cool” or palatable. Stop making sure everything is perfect and “done” – it honestly suppresses your energy and it falls lackluster. Let us see your humanness, speak how you speak, don't be in your head so much, let your energy FLOW. You will attract the people that are made for your energy. Then create systems and structures that help support your creative flow. 

How to do it: Take your audience on a journey. Share the moments of inspiration, creation, and even challenges in your work. This transparency builds trust and connection. Speak to your audience’s desires and needs (don't try to talk to everyone). Frame your posts, videos, or blogs around what your ideal clients want and need. Use your voice to offer value—whether it’s inspiration, education, or transformation. Show up regularly, even if it’s in small doses. Your visibility keeps you top of mind for potential clients.

MANIFESTORS:

1. Create high impact, high value offers: Manifestors are not designed to grind out work continuously; their energy operates in powerful bursts, and rest is essential for maintaining alignment. High-impact, high-value offers let you focus your energy where it’s most effective, allowing you to work less while creating greater value and impact. These offers also position you as a leader and allow clients to see the significant transformation you provide. Build anticipation around your work. Manifestors have a natural ability to create excitement and momentum. Building anticipation taps into this strength, drawing attention to your work and encouraging clients to act. Manifestors shine when they generate curiosity and enthusiasm for what’s coming next.

How to do it: Focus on the biggest transformation or results you can deliver. Manifestors excel at initiating change, so design offers that create significant shifts for your clients. Create a high-value offering that is different to what others are doing and set your pricing according to the value and transformation you’re delivering. Tease your offerings, create energy and excitement around them – remember you are here to take up space and not shy away from the impact of your work. Don't be afraid to be proud of your offering and back it!

REFLECTORS:

1. Embrace Your Role as a Mirror and Leverage your Unique Perspectives: Reflectors are here to reflect the state of their environment and guide others toward alignment. Your ability to see what others often miss is your greatest asset. Position your services as a way for clients to gain clarity, alignment, or insight. Highlight your ability to help others reflect and refine their goals. You don't need a massive community to have success. Focus on quality over quantity. Reflectors thrive on meaningful connections rather than overwhelm of too many different people's energy. Working with clients who value your insights ensures consistent, fulfilling revenue. Then, master the art of client retention: Happy clients are not only repeat clients but also your biggest advocates.

How to do this: Focus your messaging on your ability to help clients gain clarity, identify blind spots, and align with their highest potential. Offer services like audits, strategy sessions, or reflective consultations. Nurture deep relationships with a smaller client base. Focus on long-term partnerships where your reflective insights can create lasting transformation. Implement strong follow-up systems and offer incentives for long-term commitments. Always ask for feedback and look for ways to enhance their experience.

Are you ready to create a business that supports consistent growth? Let’s break the cycle of feast and famine and set you up for success. Create Space, is designed to help you clarify your offerings, align with your strengths, and generate systems for sustainable success.

Join now!

Let’s build a business you can count on — every single month.

Waiting for the “right time”

YOU HAVE TO GO FIRST.

if you are someone that is waiting for the “right sign” or the “right time”, this one's for you

For so long in my life, I felt like I was in a waiting room. 

Sitting in indecision and waiting for the “sign”, “the right time”, to feel like I was making the “right decision” or “one day” when it was all going to happen for me. 

Until I realised, that this was just a way that my mind was convincing me not to change and just stay the same, small, “protected” place. I realised that by not making a choice, I was making a choice to stay the same.

Don't get me wrong - I love a good sign or synchronicity, but I never ever ever wait for that. They happen daily for me and I just see it as a little wink from the Universe that I am on the right track ;)

Now, the only sign I am waiting for is the sign of my body - how it feels towards a decision, the excitement or curiosity towards something, if it feels drawn or connected to something. When I feel expansion, excitement or intrigue - I go for it! It is my clue of my next step.

I no longer wait for anything because I am the creator of my reality.

I remember the day I decided to be decisive and realised that if I wanted something to happen or for change to manifest in my life - I was the only one responsible. I couldn’t wait for the ‘perfect time’, for an invitation, for permission or someone else to map it out for me. That was the day I was finally free.

We can’t wait for others to change, or circumstances to be perfect or everything to come together. We have to go first - and the rest follows suit.

Please don't wait another moment to become the creator of your life. 

If you want to feel supported, you need to first take the aligned action & the Universe then comes in to make it happen in your & the collective favour.

Sometimes you just need to find the courage to take the first scary step. Because only then can energy match and support you tenfold. You are signalling that you are ready for more. And trust me, you will always be rewarded!

It is up to you to begin to close the gap between what you want and what your life currently is.

Whatever your desire is (even if you don’t know the full vision), you need to go first. I’ve felt it first hand how the Universe conspires in your favour. You create the shift in your own narrative, and it ripples on from there.

Use Human Design awareness & tools to help you bring to life what you desire. It is the most effective and transformative tool sweeping the coaching industry because it is so individualised, tangible and crazily accurate. 

Transformation happens when you meet your edge. Meet the fear, dare, feel it and do it anyway.

If you feel called to making a step towards your highest path and become a Certified Human Design Expert & Practitioner, join us for the Advanced HD Certification. Don't miss your chance to go first in an industry with so much demand, and so little supply. Spaces are limited for intimacy reasons.

Love, Hillary xx

Avoid these common pitfalls when launching a business offering

Launching your offering can feel incredibly vulnerable and overwhelming, but it really doesn't have to be. Through my experience and work with clients, I've noticed a few common mistakes that mean your incredible gifts and offerings don't get into the hands of people it could really help & transform their lives. Which is such a disservice to your work and for them! 

Let's uncover these pitfalls and their solutions so you can launch with clarity and confidence. And start receiving consistently and abundantly! 

1. Trying to Appeal to Everyone (that you end up attracting no one)

Mistake: Casting your net too wide will only dilute your message and leave you struggling to connect with the right audience. More people is not better. Dialing in your niche and attracting your people will not only mean aligned clients find you but you will have happy clients because your offering is MADE for them.

Solution: Focus on your ideal client and targeted niche (which we explore deeply in Create Space because there are many aspects of your charts that point to this). Why is niching so important? People need to understand that your offering is exactly for them and will solve a problem they are having. If they don't see themselves in your messaging and offering, they won't invest. 

Bonus tip: Often you are guiding on something you have moved through, so speak to your past self and share what you needed to know at that time.

2. Overcomplicating Your Offering and Not Being Specific Enough

Mistake: I see so many thinking they need to “add more” to their offerings to make it seem more valuable but it gets overcomplicated. Confused, overwhelmed people don't invest. 

Solution: People need to know exactly how you can help them solve a problem they have. Being too vague, open-ended and too wishy-washy will mean your offering falls on deaf ears. People will think your offering is just a nice-to-have but a must-have! Adding too many features or services can overwhelm both you and your audience. Simplify your offering. Start with one clear, impactful offering that will create consistent revenue. Once that's established, you can expand. 

3. Competing on Price and not Value

Mistake: If you compete by lowering your price, you will be a price-based commodity business. You will attract clients based on lowest price concessions. This is a sure-fast way to lead you to your Not Self of frustration and burn out.

Solution: Compete on value, not price. Value is not how much you give, but your ability to help someone solve a problem they have. Creating an offering that streamlines that process is highly valuable and priceless to your ideal client.

4. Skipping Market Research

Mistake: You may think you know your ideal client and audience in and out. But one thing I have learnt through my own experience and successful entrepreneurs, market research is everything. Never assume what your audience wants without validating it.

Solution: Talk to your potential market. I love to have one-on-one conversations to understand their needs. Use their language in your content and marketing materials. Go back to your own journals and reflect on how you were feeling at the time you needed support. This is absolute gold!

6. Ignoring Your Natural Genius and Strengths, and Replicating what's already being done

Mistake: Creating a business that's not aligned with your natural talents or Human Design takes you off course and leads to burnout, frustration and making things so much harder than they need to be. You have these gifts for a reason because your Soul needed them to fulfil your purpose. Don't just follow trends that don't work for you. 

Solution: Build your business around your strengths and unique energy. Gone are the days of being generic & profitable. The market is craving authenticity, differentiation and uniqueness! Without understanding the true depth of your energetic blueprint & aligned strategy for success, you'll end up creating a business that just replicates another, works against you or even repels the clients & community you desire. You and your gifts have unmatched value - so why would your business be any different! Look to your HD over how you 'should' do it.

7. Overlooking Joy in Your Process

Mistake: Building a business that feels like a grind will eventually drain you. If you burn yourself out in the launch process, you have nothing to give once your offering starts. 

Solution: Listen to your intuition and desires. Prioritise self care and nervous system regulation practices through the rollercoaster of emotions. Leverage your energetic aura, intuitive authority, role in the market, message to deliver and service to spread. When you enjoy the process, it's easier to stay committed, creative and inspired. Don't make the mistake of creating a business that feels hard and you hate.

Let's create a business that works for you, not the other way around!

Imagine a business where:

• Your ideal clients find you.

• Your offers are in high demand.

• You're consistently booked and earning a sustainable income.

• Income flows consistently, month after month.

• You have a predictable revenue stream.

• You can finally relax and enjoy the fruits of your labor.

ENTER Create Space, that will guide you through a step-by-step process to:

• Create a business that aligns with your energetic make up.

• Identify your ideal client niche archetype based on your Human Design.

• Craft irresistible offers that align with your unique strengths.

• Create a promised transformation that will result in happy clients receiving solutions to their problems.

• Establish yourself as an expert in your market and create a community that values your point of view.

• Develop a marketing strategy and launch plan that attracts your dream clients effortlessly.

• Draft compelling messaging that resonates deeply with your audience and positions you as a leader in your market.

• Pricing practices and financial tracking templates.

• Soo much more!

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End of Year 2024 Reflection Journal Prompts

I recently stumbled across these journal prompts to support you in learning and reflecting on 2024 and taking all those learnings and wisdom into 2025.

Check out this blog to then create your vision for 2025.

Create a sacred space with yourself and your journal and flow through the below:

Year in Review - The Big Picture

How do I really feel about this last year?

What were the 3 words that define my 2024 experience?

What was my predominant theme or pattern?

What significant transformations occurred?

What surprised me most about my journey?

Growth & Evolution

What parts of myself have I outgrown?

What new aspects of myself have I discovered?

What shadows came into the light?

What triggered my biggest growth edges?

What old stories am I ready to release?

What new narratives am I embracing?

Inner Landscape

How has my relationship with myself evolved?

What self-care practices proved most nurturing?

When did I feel most aligned with my authentic self?

What boundaries did I learn to honor?

What emotions need more space for expression?

What aspects of myself are asking for more acceptance?

Relationships & Community

How has my understanding of healthy relationships deepened?

What qualities do I now recognize as non-negotiable in relationships?

Who showed up for me in unexpected ways?

How did I show up differently in my relationships?

What relationship patterns am I ready to transform?

Where could I extend more compassion (to self or others)?

Purpose & Values

What activities brought me alive?

What values became clearer through my experiences?

What choices reflected my deepest truth?

What impact did I have that felt meaningful?

What contributions am I most proud of?

What new purpose is emerging?

Energy & Wellbeing

What consistently energized me?

What consistently drained me?

What new practices supported my wellbeing?

What helped me feel most grounded?

What brought unexpected joy?

What wisdom did my body share?

Integration & Moving Forward

What lessons am I carrying forward?

What healing feels complete?

What healing is still in process?

What seeds am I planting for the future?

What support do I need to call in?

What hidden gifts from challenges can I now recognize?

Final Reflections

What else feels important to acknowledge?

What gratitude wants to be expressed?

What forgiveness wants to be offered?

What celebration wants to be had?

What promise do I want to make to myself?

Peak Moments & Joy

Brought me the most joy:

Unexpected joy:

Moment that made you laugh the hardest:

Space or environment that brought you peace:

Growth & Transformation

Most profound lesson:

Challenge you're now grateful for:

Surprising challenge that led to growth:

Pattern you became aware of:

What felt heavy that now feels lighter:

Moment you chose courage over comfort:

Relationships & Connections

Most meaningful new connection:

Relationship that evolved most significantly:

Boundary you're glad you set:

Personal Development

Habit you're most proud of developing:

Risk you're glad you took:

Dream you began pursuing:

Inspiration & Learning

Favorite podcast episode and why it resonated:

Most impactful book and its key message:

Start 2025 with these Journal Prompts to set yourself up for success

Happy New Year!

Even if you aren't big on the celebrations, there is something beautifully powerful about an agreed collective energy spurring new beginnings and starting a fresh foot forward. It feels like a reignition of aligned action, hope, motivation and inspiration – and provides the perfect time to reconnect, redirect and claim the life you wish to live!

In the spirit of new year, new me (just kidding, but you really can reinvent yourself whenever you desire) – I wanted to share a little ritual I do at the beginning of every year. I love to get still, quiet, with myself and create intentions for the year ahead. It is an incredible way to start intentional forward movement, reflect/redirect on your progress throughout the year and then celebrate your growth at the end of the year.

If you want change in your life, you need to change the way you see yourself and how you move through the world. It starts with your thoughts and intentions, then your behaviour and manifestations follow suit. Because where your intention goes, your energy flows. 2024 was the year that I really went for it, inspired by what I could do when I set my mind, body and spirit towards anything. And I received so much in return – all because I honoured the intentions I set, without talking myself out of it when I doubted myself or things got challenging. I stayed on the course and boy am I grateful I did.

Below are my journal prompts that I love to open and create the space for an intentional and expansive year following. It's like creating a little spell and watching it unfold as you take action and are supported by the Universe. I create a sacred moment with my journal (or notes app on my laptop!) and allow the clarity, the dreams and my vision for the year drop in. You can't do this wrong, and it can change / develop with time. Don't be afraid to go big! You will become the person who aligns with what you are calling in.

Sit with the below:

// What do I want to create this year? (any desires, manifestations, changes, feelings you wish to experience).

// Who will I need to be this year in order to do the above? (think the energy you need to embody, the qualities and traits of character you need to have for your intentions to manifest)?

// In light of the above, what is my guiding anchor word for 2025? (1 or 2 words that encompasses what you desire and who you will need to embody). For example, my word is devotion: to my bigger collective life's work, to my clients, to my spiritual growth, to my home & relationships. This devotion carries me past any insecurities, fears or ego worries. 

// In embodying the above, what will I need to create more time for, give more energy to and step more into my power?

One lesson for me in 2024 was that what you desire, you need to give (we live in a reciprocal world). If you want more love, you need to give more. If you want more abundance, you need to give and circulate more money and support etc. Whatever you give and do, you will receive back TENFOLD.

// What needs to be released for the above growth and manifestations to occur? Think limiting beliefs, patterns, procrastinating, talking yourself out of things, believing fear. Make a little promise to yourself of the changes that you can start making, and BIG TIP start moving towards fear - not away. It is your guiding force.

// Looking back on 2025 (one year ahead), what would you be so proud and grateful that you did? What would make 2025 feel truly successful (growth, impact, creation, difference, feelings, confidence)? This should feel a little stretchy, scary and big. Because remember, you are becoming the person who naturally aligns with your manifestations and word of the year.

Enjoy my loves! May 2025 be your best yet!

Do you feel frustrated in your career or business and see people online who are living the life you desire but you don’t know how to do it your way?

Do you feel confused on your place in the market, unsure how to monetise your gifts and start a business that gives more than it takes?

Do you feel lost in the sea of what you “should” do when creating a community and clientele base, and it feels like you are feeding a black hole of nothingness?

I get it, but it doesn't have to be so hard. You just need to understand your way, and create the clarity, structure and confidence needed to support you supporting others.

Join us in CREATE SPACE: for (future) conscious entrepreneurs to clarify & launch their offering their way and create a business that leverages your strengths, provides consistent revenue and is actually enjoyable.

Live coaching calls start 16 January 2025, along with detailed modules to help you find clarity and confidence in making your biggest business leaps yet!

Claim the life you desire, be your own boss, create your own hours, define yourself as a leader in the market and be your most fulfilled, purposeful Self. 

I want you to feel SO deeply held, clear, empowered and inspired to finally step into your power and purpose in 2025. All while creating a beautiful, spacious, abundant life you desire.

What even is Human Design?

Even as a Human Design Teacher, this is still hard to answer because no words seem to suffice the deep relief, awareness and knowings that you receive once you understand your Human Design. It’s one of those “need to try it out and you will see” kind of things.

It means different things for different people, and depends on if you lean more into the spiritual or science side of things (or both). Luckily, Human Design serves both. 

As someone who loves the practical and esoteric, Human Design scratched my itch when I was asking so many questions and not feeling like I was receiving any answers. It was the first time I felt truly seen and understood. I was equal parts “how does it know so much about me!” and “wow I am really not living a life true to me”. It helped me muster the courage to forgo my legal career for a more aligned, fulfilling path.

I see Human Design as the language and blueprint of your Soul or Highest Self. It shows you how to become the best version of yourself, and how to receive all the fulfilment that is destined for you. Whenever you doubt or second guess your value or what you are here to do in this lifetime, it serves as a reminder of your innate essence and intuitive knowing.  It gives you an understanding of your unique gifts, mission, self-expression and way of creating in this world. In other words, you want the tools for how to get to know your “deconditioned” self that isn’t influenced and impacted by generational and societal expectations.

Technically speaking, Human Design is a modality that combines ancient wisdom (Kabbalah, I-ching, Tree of Life, Chakra System, Astrology) & genetic physics to give your master energetic blueprint. At birth, each of us receive our unique Human Design blueprint. Your blueprint captures specific details about what makes you uniquely you: your strengths, your weaknesses, your traits, your energetic needs, your gifts, your intuition, your roles, and many other elements that make up who you are. 

For those who lean more into the science side, Human Design gives a practical framework of how to use your energy to create more flow & ease in your life, and less resistance and struggle. It is a system of self awareness, that offers an energetic map of how to move through the world with greater peace, satisfaction, success, surprise & excitement. Essentially to flow with life, rather than forcing, pushing, striving or feeling burnt out in the process. It shows you how to make your best decisions, use your energy to thrive (not just survive), your leadership & creative style and your greatest strengths to leverage in work & life.

It can tell you down to what best environments support you, business structure, who your audience is, your purpose, your life’s theme, how you best communicate, relationship style — honestly the list goes on.This is your life manual of how to create your reality, run your business and thrive in your relationships that actually feels good and manifests what you desire.

Human Design helps the logical conscious mind “make sense” of your intuitive inner landscape and understand how to make the most impact & success in the external. This wisdom creates safety in our body and trust in our inner knowing to follow your intuition and cultivate your unique path. It was created in a time when we have lost that trust and connection with ourselves. Now we have this extremely logical and intricate system to help our conscious mind get on board with what our intuitive body already knows. 

Your Human Design is highly individualised for You. It gifts us language and tools for understanding, accepting and celebrating our unique part to play in the world — rather than trying to be something you’re not.

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When I began to live Human Design, everything started to flow. I quit my law career, moved overseas, started my own businesses and lived on the beaches of Mexico, Costa Rica, Spain doing what I love, what fulfills me, and getting paid for it. I am now living on the beautiful Sunshine Coast teaching Human Design in my Advanced Human Design Certification and holding my Rest Assured Retreats. 

I am more successful and fulfilled than I thought possible doing the thing that brings me such joy. 

My wish is to similarly provide you with the permission to be your most authentic Self and manifest your desires. 

I’m here to remind you that what you feel called towards is not only possible, but inevitable if you just start moving. 

Every chart and person is SO different, so:

GENERATE YOUR FREE HUMAN DESIGN CHART HERE

Prepare for your life to be changed once you begin your experiment of returning to your most free, authentic self. Human Design will change the way you see yourself and the world around you. You will begin to see life as full of opportunity and possibility, while seeing your power, potential and strengths. Release the pressure of trying to ‘figure life out’ from a heady place (how is that working for you?) and instead, learn to connect and listen to your intuitive knowing, and allow your naturalness and creative force flow from you. This is how you create your own heaven on earth and actually make your desires happen.

Moving through the fear of being seen

You don’t have to bare it all online!

I hear so often, “I really want to get into this work but I am just not the person who wants to speak face to camera or share all my vulnerable life moments”.

And you know what my answer is? (Unlike other coaches that may say you have to!)

“Please don't then!!”

Where did we go so far that we feel like its necessary to bare your heart and soul to absolute strangers on the internet? That in order to “help” people, you have to be so vulnerable and share your most deepest, hardest, challenging and raw moments of your life (cue crying video). Where did this become a prerequisite to being a trustworthy, “authentic person” and a “limiting belief” if you don't do it. 

Don't get me wrong, I am all about transparency, authenticity and vulnerability. But you don't owe anyone your full vulnerability and rawest moments.

It makes me sad to think that many incredible women aren't stepping into their purpose for fear that they need to do that. 

There is a difference between fear of being seen and wanting to keep your heart protected.  There is a difference between sharing something because “it makes you more relatable” vs genuinely wanting to share what you have moved through (because that will never feel forced). If there comes a moment that you WANT to share that - amazing! Go for it!!

But at the end of the day, protect your heart. You don't have to say all the details but share the learnings, realisations, perspectives, process, your wisdom - that you have cultivated from your life experience. People feel the WEIGHT in your words rather than needing to tell them all that you went through to receive that now knowing. This should be more of a priority.

I rarelyyy ever post talking to camera - not because I am afraid of it but because it hasn't really felt natural, so I don't force it. I have always felt like my podcast was more my space. If I do feel called to grab my camera and speak, then I will. But I don't see it as a prerequisite for success & community creation. 

Don't let this be a reason to stop you from stepping into this coaching space. You set the expectation of what you are available for! 

You can share, be seen, serve in a way that feels true for you!

You never ever ever have to self sacrifice for the sake of success. 

Don't let it be the reason you don't start the business or share your wisdom.

So now that's out of the way - do you have a message, deep down desire & mission to help people -  there is an element of putting yourself out there and actually sharing that. So if you are afraid of being seen, here are some of my tips:

// Look at where you are judging others or have witnessed judgement of others - when we judge others, it is a reflection of where we judge ourselves and have a shadow of not allowing ourselves to fully express. We never ever want to be on the other end of the judgement that we or others have given. My past self would have 1000% judged me now, because she didn't let herself be authentic or take up space. Until I went inward, healed those shadow aspects, celebrated other people doing the thing I previously judged - did I no longer fear it. I realised that judgement is more about that person, than about me (because I had been the judger before). Talk about FREEING being someone with absolutely no judgement towards others.

// Connect with the inner child of you that is afraid of being seen, misunderstood, rejected and abandoned. I love to use the practice of IFS (that I will be teaching you inside the Certification) to access, heal, and send love to that part of yourself. This is POWERFUL because it gets to the core, root subconscious belief rather than bandaid approach. Your inner child needs to feel safe & protected - how are you helping them feel that?

// Regulate your nervous system before, after and during “being seen”. If you are putting yourself out there, your nervous system and body can go into fight or flight. It can feel like it's safety and survival is threatened because you are going against “the pack” (we need community to survive). So please breathe through it, EFT tapping, saying the sound “voooom” as you tap and regulate your body. Tell yourself “I am safe, I am safe”. Then get support either from nature or a loved on - this gives the feeling of unconditional love & acceptance. Do not, I repeat, do not check your phone, the likes, the reception - it will make it only worse. Celebrate yourself for doing the scary thing, regardless of the reception!

Take it slow, this is big work. Especially if you have a 5 profile line. When you allow yourself to naturally and authentically be seen for your sharings & knowings - you will feel truly FREE and no longer held back. But again, you do not need to feel like you have to be an open book that bares it all! You just do you! 

If you want to dive in deeper to moving through the fear of being seen, I recorded a podcast earlier this year below!

Sending so much love!! Honestly so proud of you, I know this work is MASSIVE. Fear of being seen used to be debilitating for me (to the extent that I broke up with my partner, moved overseas and blocked everyone from my home city on instagram so that they couldn't see this new identity and life I was creating). Please don't go to my extremes haha! 

If I can do it, so can you!

Let’s bust a myth: the Market is NOT oversaturated

THE MARKET ISN'T OVERSATURATED, 

YOUR MIND IS JUST FINDING AN EXCUSE TO STAY THE SAME

Who is guilty of their mind talking them out of something because “so many people are already doing it”, “the market is saturated”, “it's too late - there is too much competition”? 

Sound familiar? Been there. And wow, what a little trick your mind is making you believe so you don't step into any form of change. It stops you from doing something that could be incredible for you because of this little fib!

Let me tell you a little something about your brain's RAS system. Whatever you are interested, curious or love, your mind becomes tasked to noticing it so you will see more of it. Your world isn't what is around you, but what you NOTICE. So if you are interested in Human Design, Astrology, Self Development or Coaching - your brain will find it EVERYWHERE. You will think that everyone's news feed looks just like yours. But it isn't!

But there is a reason why you think that it is everywhere - it's not reality, it's your RAS system filtering what is important vs not important to YOU. Have you noticed that when you want a certain object, car, shoe - you begin to notice it everywhere?

It is because your RAS system is noticing it. Not because there is actually anymore of them compared to others. It filters out all the other cars, shows, objects that you don't care about. 

So, when it comes to stepping towards your desires - please don't let the reason why you don't because you think “the space is already filled”. 

THERE IS SO MUCH DEMAND FOR GOOD HUMAN DESIGN COACHES & GUIDES, AND NOT ENOUGH SUPPLY.

I don't use those capitals lightly!

The market is not too saturated, I repeat it is not. If anything, there is not enough good supply for all the growing demand.

Just because you aren't the first, doesn't mean there isn't space for you. There is billions of people on this planet, and many that will connect directly with how YOU share it. 

It is ONLY the beginning for wellness, spirituality, coaching and HD is so incredibly niche. The wellness and spirituality market is BOOMING and predicted to exceed 8.7 TRILLON in 2027. With an estimated 15% of global consumer spending is on wellness related services and products! 

For more it is about 90% of my spending haha! If something will make me feel better, flow better or enjoy life more - I am throwing my money at it. Because it is a high value to me - my experiences and enjoyment here!

And I personally believe Human Design is yet to have it's full hay day! But it's coming - more and more people are finding out about it and wanting to know MORE. Human Design is the future!

AI, websites and apps are great to dip your toe in. But there is NOTHING like a human-to-human connected, intuitive, highly practical session or offering. People are craving human-ness, depth, connection, authenticity and tangible guidance that will move the needle forward in their lives. And that's where you can come in.

Being an exceptional coach or reader is so much more than reciting information. I teach Advanced Human Design in an empowered, practical and life-changing way. You will not only learn the science and knowledge of Human Design, but how to intuitively use the system to create massive transformations to all you share the system with.

Think about when you first discovered your Human Design and how life-changing that was - YOU can give that to others!

Then you can go and share it YOUR way. Create books, offerings, courses, apps, products, services - the options are endless. OR it can just be for you and your own enjoyment and enrichment of your life. 

Will you join us for the Advanced HD Certification?

What was my most life-changing decision?

 No, it's not leaving my law career or moving countries or starting my Human Design business - while I am SO glad I made those decisions.

The biggest and most important decision that led to all the above and brought me so much more was: Choosing to follow my intuition over my mind – and deciding to be decisive!

Not just when it was easy, obvious or uncomplicated. But especially when it was hard, challenging, uncomfortable & shit scary. I always said I was indecisive but really that was a protection mechanism, my emotional authority meant I never felt 1000% sure but that didn't mean I should spend my life sitting on the fence. 

My life changed when I decided to finally make the decisions my intuition called me towards, without being certain or 100% sure where it was all going.

I hear this so often, “I feel my gut but my mind talks me out of it.” “I get an intuitive feeling but I don’t really follow it”. Waiting for your mind & intuition to be on the same page will mean you’ll likely wait forever.

There is this idea that following your intuitive call is easy! HELL NO - It's going directly against your conditioning and protection mechanisms that you built up over the years. 

Having doubt does not mean it’s the wrong decision. You have two opposing voices - your mind & your intuition. One wanting sameness & the other change.

If you desire change, your mind can’t give you that. It’s wired for sameness & to avoid risk. Change requires risk. So it’ll say, “maybe tomorrow” “not right now” “that’s not possible”. Your mind is full of conditioning and what you have always done - and when I decided to no longer live in fear, lack & smallness - my life transformed.

Only your intuition can guide you towards that change. The best decision you’ll ever make is to start experimenting with following your intuition. Everything good, explorative, fulfilling and enriching comes from this place. And often, it is behind a fear - it is the human initiation into becoming the person who creates & aligns with what you want.

You don’t need to “wait” until you are braver, more knowledgeable, more fit, more confident, more {fill in the blank}. The feelings & peace you’re seeking doesn’t come from becoming something else, but becoming more of who you actually are. All of you.

If you’re here, you probably have a growth mindset. But where are you creating blocks & barriers for your own growth?

Where do you not let yourself take the leap and do the thing your body & soul WANT?

7 years into my Human Design Experiment

I am so unbelievably grateful for my past self who did the scary things. I remember sitting in my 9-5 law cubicle (in reality, 7-7), feeling like my soul was being sucked out of my body. I desired change & knew life had to be for something “more”, but it felt too far out of reach.

I was so scared, nervous and apprehensive to make the change. But I couldn't ignore that inner call within me - and I am SO glad I didn't! 

When I started my Human Design experiment and actually started to decondition - I see it as the moment I became the active and intentional creator of my life. 

I released the pressure to know exactly why I was feeling called to where I was being called and instead, I broke it down step by step, and followed my intuition & curiosities. 

I flew across the world & invested in learning Human Design - a modality I loved, had been deeply impacted by and spoke to every person who would listen about it! It was a future career that felt for the first time, truly intuitively aligned. (Now you have this Certification that has EVERYTHING you would ever need so you don't have to go to the extreme lengths & investments I went to study this system). I was still scared but I remember feeling a wave of excitement, adrenaline & pride for starting to create movement of what I knew I was here for: to help guide people in the way I wish I had been supported.

Human Design gave me the practical framework to be able to guide clients through BIG transformations. And now, I have a business that gives to me more than Law ever did or could. I earn more and feel way more fulfilled. 

Now, thousands of incredible humans have flowed through my sessions, courses, workshops, Retreats, Certification & community. I dreamed of this: feeling in my purpose, doing exactly what I am meant to be doing, so much financial freedom & abundance, and serving incredible people. I attribute all that I have created and this fulfillment to Human Design.

As coaches, I believe it is imperative to understand someone’s HD before giving guidance professionally. It gives us a framework that will leave people in dumbfounded that you can articulate and see what they are moving through, better than they could themselves. 

HD takes out the guesswork - it provides direct access & language to help your clients understand, accept & celebrate what makes them unique in this world. Leaving them feeling so seen and supported - and you being a must-have leader in your spaces.

I am very excited for our upcoming Advanced Human Design Certification cohort. I teach you the practical tools, theory & structure that also encourages your own intuitive movement within. 

You will learn everything you need to know to start sharing Human Design professionally & in your own personal journey. And I can 1000% guarantee you will feel prepared and supported in building your business and your relationship to yourself will massively and positively change. It never ceases to amaze me the transformations that happen in the space!